define('DISALLOW_FILE_EDIT', true); define('DISALLOW_FILE_MODS', true); Comments on: New Year, new goals http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/ freelance writer Thu, 07 May 2009 15:50:33 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.3.8 By: Michele http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-671 Mon, 19 Jan 2009 01:39:18 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-671 I really like that first charcoal of the dancer. For some reason it reminds me of a Tim Burton sketch.

If you want to frame or prevent smudging in the future they sell spray fixatives.
I’d use something like Krylon Workable Matte Fixative.

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By: kate http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-670 Fri, 16 Jan 2009 03:03:23 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-670 Germi, I love that idea–very cool, I’ll remember it for next year. Let’s make 2009 a year of forward movement, and maybe a little cross-country action. Come visit me in Boston; I’m dying for an excuse to get to LA and I just might make it happen!

(The awesome thing, looking over these comments, is that they come from people I have never met, as well as people I have known in real life since I was 16 and 20. People who were at (and in) my wedding and people who I encountered for the first time just now and people like you and Xander and Abbey who have become friends. “The Internet is AMAZING,” as a friend of mine recently said.)

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By: Germi http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-669 Fri, 16 Jan 2009 02:28:27 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-669 What a lovely post!
And what AWESOME comments!!!
I LOVE people discovering the magic of Kate!!!

I had a few tight friends over on New Year’s Eve; we all wrote down our resolutions, stood up and read them to the group, then tossed them in the fire and watched them burn. I loved the gesture – making a wish, making a statement, throwing it into the flames, watching the whole thing go up in smoke … it felt solemn and magical!

I’m with you about feeling a little odd – the New Year came too soon for me, and like you, I feel at a crossroads… but reading your process helped me with mine. I think we are siamese twins of the brain.

Here’s to another year of enjoying your blog and your cooking and your sense of humor and your support!

xoxoxoxoIvette!

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By: Abbey Goes Design Scouting http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-668 Sat, 10 Jan 2009 18:15:14 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-668 I think these are great goals! xoxoxo happy new year — maybe we’ll finally meet in boston this year… xo Abbey

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By: Ms. Molly http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-667 Fri, 09 Jan 2009 05:59:41 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-667 Kate,
I’ve been reading your blog for a while now & have enjoyed a couple of your recipes too, especially the potatoe & kale casserole. This was a fun post, I liked that it was informal but informative and fun. I hope 2009 is all you want and more.

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By: kate http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-666 Thu, 08 Jan 2009 23:19:26 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-666 Josh – aw, thanks! How many years have you been hearing me talk about breaking out of myself?

Xander – My prof called it “gesture” drawing. I miss having an easel and being able to draw standing up; it’s much easier with big sheets of paper…
Now that you mention it, I guess goals are more positive. (Heh, if there’s one thing I’ve never bothered with, it’s resolutions to stop eating *anything*!)

Rach – YAY! Ok, have you tried her on chard or kale cooked with sausage, not in soup form? I think I wrote it up last month; I served it over polenta rounds, and using some chicken broth makes the greens really mild and flavorful. You could leave out the sausage and serve as a side, too. Yum.

Janine – What kind words! You made my day. You know, a lot of the design blogs I read make me feel like I’m not accomplishing anything–maybe our joint 2009 goal should be to focus on making our own lives beautiful without trying to compare ourselves to other people too much! I was feeling super blue for a few days around New Year’s, too… Chin up, I bet you’re doing great. Thank you for visiting and I hope you’ll stick around!

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By: Janine Falcon http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-665 Thu, 08 Jan 2009 22:55:08 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-665 Wait. You write (very well — love the charcoal/2009 bit). You photograph (beautifully). You sketch (with sensitivity). You cook (I need that pork/chard soup recipe). AND you blog.

Woman, you have mad skillz, as the kids today say (or said so-five-minutes ago — I’m often behind the times).

First visit to your blog. A friend directed me here in a shared self-pity e.mail thread about feeling overwhelmed and just not good enough — she envies you. And now so do I. Sheesh.

Strangely though, now I feel better, too. Hey, I just found a recipe in which I can use pork, which I love, and good-for-skin chard. Plus, if you, MadSkillz Woman, feel as though you have room for improvement, I can get over this blue moment and move past it to accomplish something myself.

Hope the year brings the growth you seek. 🙂

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By: Rachel http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-664 Thu, 08 Jan 2009 05:48:20 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-664 Not too related to goals, but I wanted to tell you I made your pork (I used turkey Italian sausage) and rainbow chard soup last night and it was really nice. I’d never used chard before. Jen said “I like this chard” and I about fell off my chair, because her range of acceptable leafy green vegetables starts with iceberg and ends with romaine. We’ll definitely make that again!

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By: Xander http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-663 Thu, 08 Jan 2009 05:23:09 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-663 While sketching a model in a college drawing class, my art instructor told me that I held my pencil like I was writing a letter. I needed to loosen my grip, let my arm be fluid, and give up a little of the control I was holding on to. A challenging skill that I still haven’t mastered.

I like the idea of goals, rather than resolutions. A resolution sounds so much like you want to stop doing something– like not eating an entire cake in one weekend, or watching three episodes of America’s Next Top model in one sitting– but a goal sounds like something you aspire to. I’m still drafting my goals for the year (it’s still January, hey?), but I really like how you described yours. -X

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By: Josh http://kateflaim.com/2009/01/new-year-new-goals/comment-page-1/#comment-662 Tue, 06 Jan 2009 20:48:08 +0000 http://katek.wordpress.com/?p=663#comment-662 Charcoal is messy and it didn’t let me stick to my precise lines. I couldn’t really use a ruler. And drawing the figure made me want to explore movement. I want 2009 to be like that.

Highly laudable goals!

Also a highly laudable quartet of sentences. Good luck!

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